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The Winning Family: Return of an Inspiring Parenting Classic

The 35th Anniversary edition of Dr. Louise Hart’s parenting classic revived with Kristen Caven

Kristen Caven and Dr. Louise Hart are a mother-daughter writing team who teach social and emotional well-being for parents and children of all ages. Their latest book, The Winning Family: Where No One Has to Lose helps readers develop the win-win life skills that build self-esteem, confidence, and unconditional love in family relationships. First published in 1987 by Dodd, Mead, this book (formerly subtitled Building Self-Esteem in Your Children and Yourself) broke ground for the self-esteem movement in the 1990s, and the authors coined the term “positive parenting” to describe the philosophy and techniques that bring out the best in children and help them reach their full potential and flourish.

Adding new chapters on bodies and brains, boundaries, and media addiction to the original chapters — on communication and empowerment; guidance, touch, and play; self-care, self-talk, and beliefs; problem solving and perfectionism; extended family, leadership, divorce and power dynamics—this book delivers information parents want and need. A welcoming, inclusive narrative addresses cultural and self-esteem issues—related to race, gender, religion, special needs and spectrum diversity, poverty, crime, abuse, and broken/blended families—in the full context of trauma recovery, emotional intelligence, and ACEs, (adverse childhood experiences). This book shows how to build PACEs (positive childhood experiences), which build lifelong health. Engaging and accessible personal stories make the concepts highly relatable.

“By supporting this beloved book, you are getting behind the idea that families should be places of positivity and growth for kids and parents alike,” said Kristen Caven in the team’s pre-launch video. “This book is an updated edition of a beloved parenting classic that can help a new generation to look beyond behavior, and empower kids as they themselves grow.” According to Caven, whose voice leads this edition, this project has deep roots in her own family, a vivid contrast of toxic and healthy relationships. Conflict resolution skills, anger management, healthy child development, and expectations management are skills she, as a child of divorce, wishes all parents could be knowledgeable about and skilled in, a problem this inspiring, hopeful book addresses.

About the Authors:

Dr. Louise Hart is a community psychologist and motivational speaker who has delivered over 400 presentations around the US and internationally. Kristen Caven is a credentialed trainer in positive psychology, who also leads the founding branch of the California Writers Club. Together they founded Uplift Press & Programs in Oakland, California. New editions of their other books, Wings of Self-Esteem and The Bullying Antidote, plus emotional health books for kids Liking Myself and The Mouse, the Monster, and Me by Dr. Pat Palmer are forthcoming through Uplift Press.

The Winning Family: Where No One Has to Lose will be available everywhere books are sold on September 1st, 2022.

Source: AB Newswire

Book Launch Party!

September 10, 2022 ~ at the Library & the Park!

We’re having our launch party in Oakland!

Saturday, September 10, 2022

10:30 -11:30 a.m. Meet the Authors at Dimond Library

12:00 – 1:30 p.m. Winning Family Park Party at Dimond Park

Meet Dr. Louise Hart and Kristen Caven, co-authors of The Winning Family: Where No One Has to Lose at this neighborhood book launch! The mother/daughter team will talk about the evolution of the 35th Anniversary edition, read chapter excerpts, and do a Q&A. Parenting questions welcome!

“What can I say, this book is life changing.! If you truly care about the happiness of your children and the world they live in, this book is for you. This book can be use as a daily resource for parenting improvement and a fun text to help you and your parenting partner to bond, heal and improve your life as a parent.” —J.M. Madrigal

There will a raffle at the Library for our books for children and adults, which will also be available at the Winning Family Park Party afterwards in Dimond Park. Bring a sack lunch and enjoy some playground games by the one, the only Mr. Caven of Horace Mann Elementary!

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Kicking off a New Edition!

The Winning Family rides again

Big news!

A new edition of The Winning Family will be coming out this fall. Louise and Kristen have been pouring over every chapter  to update this beloved classic for a new generation of parents, in celebration of The Winning Family’s 35th anniversary, we invite you to follow our Kickstarter and get connected with all of our positive parenting resources.

If you would like to get behind the idea that families should be places of positivity and growth for kids and parents alike, we invite you to back this project on Kickstarter!

Whether or not you choose to back this project, we urge you to see the video. The book is full of so many much-needed ideas, techniques, and guidelines for parents that you might also want to support the project on behalf of a friend or family member.

Check out our chapter list for all of the areas of parenting we cover: 

  1. The Idea of Winning
  2. You Are Creating a Masterpiece
  3. The Greatest Gift: Self-Esteem
  4. Building Self-Esteem
  5. Self-Esteem Protection Skills
  6. “I Know They Love Me, But I Don’t Feel It.”
  7. Listening Skills
  8. Asking and Refusal Skills
  9. Dealing with Feelings
  10. Coping Skills for Stress
  11. The Power of Words
  12. Parenting Responses that Affect Self-Esteem
  13. Parents Are Leaders: Re-Visioning Your Family
  14. Parenting Leadership Styles
  15. Parenting and Empowerment
  16. Family Boundaries
  17. Discipline Without Damage
  18. Problem Solving
  19. Touch is Vital
  20. Beliefs & Believing
  21. Monkey Talk
  22. Who’s Pulling Your Strings?
  23. Obsession With Perfection
  24. Internal Barriers to Self-Esteem
  25. External Barriers to Self-Esteem
  26. Cultural Barriers to Self-Esteem
  27. Guidance in the Digital Age
  28. The Power (and Pleasures!) of Play
  29. Bodies and Brains
  30. The Fractured Family
  31. Extending Your Family
  32. When Everybody Wins

Available wherever books are sold!

Free Book: The Best Gift!

Self-Esteem for Your Children…And Yourself!

Uplift Press is excited to announce…

Self-Esteem: The Best Gift
(for your children AND yourself!)  

A free ebook for parents
Excerpt from The Winning Family with Dr. Louise Hart 

Dr. Louise Hart and Kristen Caven have co-authored three books: The Winning Family, On the Wings of Self-Esteem, and The Bullying Antidote. Co-founders of Uplift Press and Uplift Programs, our presentations to parents focus on creating families where no one has to lose.

Illustrated with sweet, uplifting images, this terrific resource presents a collection of chapters from the updated edition of The Winning Family, which will be coming out in 2022:

  • Parenting: The Most Important Work
  • The Greatest Gift: Self-Esteem
  • Building Self-Esteem
  • Self-Esteem Protection Skills
  • Wonder Words
  • “Weather Report”

Sign up and we’ll send you an email with a link so you can read the ebook as an epub, mobi (for Kindle), or pdf.

 

Zoom Class for Parents

with the Oakland Peace Center PeaceMaker Series

Kids are back to school (sort of)—and it’s a great chance for parents to tune up their own skills!

Join me for a Saturday Night Stuck-at-Home Survival social for parents:

Peaceful Parenting in Stressful Times

A Zoom class for parents

Seeking greater family ease, connection, and mental/emotional health

with Kristen Caven
featuring Dr. Louise Hart
Authors of The Bullying Antidote, The Winning Family, and On the Wings of Self-Esteem.

September 26th

6:30pm—8pm PST

The focus of this class is on strategies for building positive emotion, which lowers stress, expands possibility, and develops inner resources. Children whose parents help them build positive emotion handle stress better, have healthier social lives and are less susceptible to peer pressure. Experiencing positive emotions helps everyone modulate our reaction to stress and allows us to recover from the negative effects of stress more quickly and completely.
Games, Giveaways, Conversation & Information
All attendees will receive a free book or class.

Sponsored by the Oakland Peace Center

Reserve Your Spot Now!

A sliding scale admission makes this event accessible to all.

 

Still a few picture books left!

“Liking Myself” is much appreciated

In the throes of this COVID pandemic, we are so appreciative of family service agencies who continue to provide virtual services, books, and activity baskets—sometimes delivered to the doorstep of families!

“We received our books [Liking Myself] a few days ago. My staff is very excited about sharing the books with our families. Something staff members all agreed on is that parents would also benefit from this book…there is no age limit with its benefits.” —Debbie Gibson, Children’s Program Director, CCUCP

This praise comes from a Children’s Program in rural Central California who provides early intervention and prevention for children with disabilities and delays throughout their county. In addition they offer a Family Resource Center for the 400 families they serve. Our census is approximately 400 families.

If you have an agency that provides services to families, contact us for deep discounts on our titles during this time.

 

Book Blowout!

Liking Myself bulk discounts for schools & social services

In preparation for a new edition of Liking Myself, we have the opportunity to sell these endearing books at deep bulk discounts to social service organizations and associations helping children and families. 

Liking Myself by Dr. Pat Palmer is an encouraging book and a valuable resource for building self-esteem and emotional stability in children 5 to 11 years of age. By writing or drawing responses to a variety of self-esteem activities, children develop social and emotional skills. The book teaches children to listen to and talk about feelings. They learn to manage the full range of their emotions including anxiety, anger, depression, and being overwhelmed, without hurting others.

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ISBN-10: 1892421534ISBN-13: 978-1892421531
8×6″ $12.99
Age Range: 5 – 11 years
Editions: Impact > Uplift Press > Boulden Publishing (2011)

Bulk Price List for Liking Myself (list $12.95)

          • 6-25 copies $4.95 each

          • 26-60 copies $3.95 each

          • Case of 60 for $175

Tax and shipping rates apply.

This offer is time-sensitive—please contact us by October 20th !

New eBook! “I Know They Love Me, But…”

More love for the holidays!

Coming together with family can be wonderful—or stressful, especially during the holidays.

Everyone needs love, but communicating love can be difficult.  If we don’t know how, our family may not feel loved.  This simple guide for parents can be a refresher, or can open your life to more happiness and joyful connections. 

Families that communicate love are more relaxed—and more fun—to be around! 

This book is FREE for Christmas! Use the coupon code “SW100” at this link between Christmas and New Year’s, 2019 — or get it for 99¢ anytime.

For more love, click here.

 

How to Build Self-Esteem in Your Family

Louise Hart’s popular class is now online!

Louise Hart’s original class, How to Build Self-Esteem in Your Family, is now available online. It’s the first online offering by Uplift U!

Click here to sign up for the class!

Recorded in 1990, the information is not only as fresh now as it was then, but neuroscience now scientifically proves the effectiveness of Hart’s observations. A few years after this, Louise first coined the term positive parenting, but this was the original class that started it all! (And her haircut is totally a blast from the past…!) Continue reading “How to Build Self-Esteem in Your Family”

Cinderella with a Soul

A fresh take on a classic you’ll never forget

We are proud to announce a new edition of The Souls of Her Feet this summer! This Cinderella send-up by Kristen Caven is our first novel. A fairytale ending is always uplifting, but there’s something special about this version, which includes plenty of self-esteem building and creative problem solving.

FULL EPK

Continue reading “Cinderella with a Soul”