Being a Tech-Protective Parent

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Entertainment culture is rewiring our brains to be more broad and less deep.

Kids who are not developmentally ready for what the mainstream media has to offer are the ones most at risk. This means it’s the parent’s job to decide what a child can watch or play. At every age, there are appropriate activities. This list is excerpted from The Bullying Antidote: Superpower Your Kids for Life, Chapter 18, “Swept Away by Technology”, and the suggestions are compiled by various expert sources, from the American Academy of Pediatrics to Common Sense Media.

“Parents assume that items sold in stores are safe, and they trust objects other parents purchase or allow in their homes. Aside from game and movie ratings, the virtual world doesn’t come with warning labels. In late 2021, the Office of the Surgeon General reported that young people have shown alarming increases in mental health challenges: one in three high school students and half of all female students reported persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness. This is nearly twice what was reported a decade before, when mobile phones were not yet ubiquitous. The Covid-19 pandemic just made things worse.” — from The Winning Family: Where No One Has to Lose, Chapter 27, “Guidance in the Digital Age” p. 249

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The Winning Family Audiobook SALE!

50% Off through 8/31/25 on Audiobooks.com

“As a parent educator for 28 years I have read every parenting book available. This is still the best book there is!  It is the number one book I recommend to families. I continue to use it a the textbook for my Napa Valley College parenting class.  The students absolutely love it!  Each week there are deep discussions about the concepts in the book. The excitement and healing and shifts in perception—from fear based parenting to love based parenting—are being made!  It has changed so many lives.” Nevin Valentine, Napa Valley College CA

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The Uplift Family Playbook is HERE!

30+ Years of Art and Illustration by Kristen Caven

Ta-Dah!

Our spring launch comes in for a landing with a big finish today… Kristen Caven’s collected illustrations she created for Dr. Hart’s books and lectures, all in one big beautiful book… not a workbook but a playbook! On every page expressive girls and boys, moms and dads, animals and random funny characters interact in this collection of poignant and humorous images, to illustrate crucial concepts for positive parenting. Each section also contains charts and mini-posters that make this one of the best authentic family resources you’ll ever find, full of tips, activities, and reference materials to turn to again and again. From “LOL” to “AHA,” readers will find the pages of book so engaging they’ll want to tear some out and paste them on the wall—and in fact, they are encouraged by the creators to do so! The Uplift Family Playbook bursts with charm and insight that parents will cherish for its inspiration—and kids will remember all their lives.

The Playbook is available as a paperback or digital edition (ideal for printing), and also in a spiral bound edition that can lie flat open or easily feature one page at a time, calendar-style, as a weekly theme or display. It’s the final installment in the new Uplift Family Upshift program (at Uplift Programs), which includes a course by Dr. Hart, a course by Kristen Caven, audiobook and ebook editions of The Winning Family, and bonus materials.

This is Kristen’s fourth cartoon art collection, after Perfectly Revolting: My Glamorous Cartooning Career, The Reason She Left, and Mad About Mills.

Thank you for following along with our overflowing cornucopia of offerings since Mother’s Day! Our final event will be on Father’s Day, when Kristen launches her podcast, The Whining Family, which you can follow on Substack, and other podcast hosts. Watch for a wrap-up next week, with a bonus thank-you for all of our subscribers!

It’s our BESTSELLER DAY!

Get The Winning Family Ebook for only 99¢ TODAY!

We’re so excited to announce today’s SALE on The Winning Family! Even if you own the paperback or audiobook, we’d like to ask you to buy the ebook for only 99¢ (regular price is only $4.95). We are trying to get 1000 people to buy the book today so that the algorithms find it and make it more visible to parents who need it right now. Will you join us?

Why right now? Because everyone is feeling the pain of the win/lose bullying dynamics running rampant in our country right now. We’re tired of the name-calling, the gaslighting, the addiction, the lying.  As social skills expert Corinne Gregory says, “We need to put the civil back into civilization.

This book is our PRIDE and JOY, and we hope it will bring JOY to many families during PRIDE month.

Have you noticed how the title of The Winning Family is designed with a rainbow typeface? That’s not an accident. We chose a font in which every letter has a unique character and color, because not everyone in a family is the same. It’s normal for people to be different, for families to be non-uniform. We celebrate the fact that the world has finally evolved to truly embrace that reality, no matter what current government leaders say while they are attacking our national values. Families are full of differences of gender, gender preferences, races, beliefs, and religions. Caring and commitment make a family.

One reviewer put it this way:

“One of the book’s biggest strengths is its inclusivity, because this is obviously not just something you thought about afterward and tacked on: you believe it, you live it. You address issues of race, gender, religion, differently abled children, poverty, crime, mental health, and abuse with sensitivity and balance, neither giving them too much page time or not enough, and never lapsing into sappiness on the one hand or judgmentalness on the other. The book feels welcoming to readers of all kinds of backgrounds and walks of life. The personal stories from your mom and you not only serve as great examples, but your honesty about them make the reader feel like mistakes are okay, as long as you learn from them. In that way, the book itself is very empowering.” Jane Ryder

Don’t miss this chance to read it for only 99¢! You can always gift it to a friend.

Buy on | Amazon | Barnes & Noble | Google | or wherever ebooks are sold!

A Place for Positive Parenting Conversations

TWF Discussion Group starts SUNDAY on Clubhouse!

This Sunday, Dr. Dee of House of Joy is throwing us a “house-warming” party on the audio app Clubhouse, and you’re invited! We’re launching a clubhouse there called Positive Parenting for the Win,” and if you’re looking for a new way to connect with other parents, we’d love to have you come check it out.

🌟 Sunday, June 1st, 2025
🕒 12:00 PM PT / 3:00 PM ET
🏠 House Launch: Positive Parenting for the Win!

This is your chance to:

  • Meet Kristen & Dr. Louise Hart live
  • Hear some excerpts from The Winning Family
  • Learn more about the Upshift tools & launch events
  • Hang with other parents building strong, connected families
  • Learn how to use Clubhouse
  • Ask your questions or just listen in!

Never used Clubhouse? It’s a free audio app (like a live podcast where you can talk back). We’ll walk you through it if it’s new to you.

Join the House | RSVP for Sunday

Bonus: Everyone who joins us live will receive a gift (but you have to be there to claim it!)

 

“Dinner Table Democracy” with Steve Zolno

Parenting is Political

Join Kristen Caven and Steve Zolno (with Louise Hart) tomorrow in a conversation about parenting leadership styles.

Americans are learning a very difficult lesson right now, and ready to better understand the dynamics that have brought us to war with one another. Destruction is something families experience often in this country—when people get hurt, can’t agree, and treat each other disrespectfully. When we see politicians using power tactics that echo their upbringings, we need to remember that parents hold the key to teach and practice prevention and peace-building skills alike.

In their parenting classic, The Winning Family: Where No One Has to Lose, Authors Kristen Caven and Louise Hart teach some key principles of positive parenting that are also true on the macro level:
👉 When needs are met, fewer problems arise
👉 Peace is a process, and
👉 What you focus on expands

In their book and classes, this mother-daughter team teaches the principles of positive parenting, which helped influence the field of Positive Psychology, the core principle of which is: expanding positive emotion expands wellness, resources and opportunities.

The Winning Family was originally published in 1987, and brought community psychologist Dr. Louise Hart to international audiences to teach harm prevention through building self-esteem in families. Louise is an elder now, and her daughter and co-author Kristen Caven has revised her book for the next generation. This month it became available as an audiobook, and her class for parents is forthcoming at www.upliftprograms.com

Caven, who attended St. Johns College and graduated from Mills College with a degree in Myth and the Western Mind, will be in conversation with Steve Zolno, a social sciences graduate of Shimer College who holds an M.A. in Educational Psychology and works as a Management and Educational Consultant in the San Francisco Bay Area. Zolno is the author of eight books including The Future of Democracy, and has been leading groups about democracy for twenty years. Explore his work on building a good society at thefutureofdemocracy.net.

Register today – event is free
Add to Calendar – https://tinyurl.com/dtd525


“Steve Zolno has served up some nutritious food for thought with The Future of Democracy. His wide-angle look at democracy’s past and present in countries all over the world helps us tease out what democracy really means now and for the future. People who sense that the political discourse is “off” or that we have lost connection with our guiding principles should read this book—and they should read it together.” —Kristen Caven, co-author of The Bullying Antidote

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🎧 Audiobook Launch + 💐 Festival Lineup!

Check out what’s coming up!

The Winning Family: Where No One Has to Lose was released as an audiobook on Monday, May 12th, 2025 from Uplift Press!

At the Mother’s Day Book Launch party, the authors introduced each other, we got a sneak audio peek from Spotify, and a sneak video peek of a perennially uplifting class Dr. Hart taught 30 years ago! Then we announced our festival lineup of events through Father’s Day:

  • 5/25, 2-3:30 on ZOOM: Dinner Table Democracy with Steve Zolno, a conversation about the places that parenting and politics intersect. [Register/Add to your calendar at https://tinyurl.com/dtd525]
  • 5/26 – Course Launch of The Uplift Family Upshift featuring “How to Improve Self-Esteem in Your Family” by Dr. Louise Hart (+ sneak previews for the next 3 days!)
  • 6/1 12pm PST on CLUBHOUSE: “Positive Parenting For The Win” House opens, hosted by Dr. Dee of House of Joy. https://tinyurl.com/ppftwOPEN
  • 6/3 Course Launch of “Monday Meeting Magic” at Uplift U
  • 6/6 BESTSELLER DAY! Please buy The Winning Family Ebook today! It’s on sale today for .99, tell your friends! https://tinyurl.com/TWFjust99
  • 6/8 The Uplift Family Playbook Launch! Subscribe to www.upliftpress.com for an announcement!
  • and finally… 6/15 FATHER’S DAY LAUNCH of “The Whining Family” Podcast! It will be available on Substack and Spotify.

Thanks to everyone who attended, we hope you LOVE your free gifts… and your families!

Stay connected over at Uplift Press &/or Uplift Programs!

Mother’s Day Audiobook Launch!

4pm PST on Zoom

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You’re Invited To..

THE

Winning Family

AUDIOBOOK LAUNCH!

🎤 🎙 🎧

DATE: MAY 11th

TIME: 4pm PST

LOCATION: ON ZOOM!

 
The Book Launch is also…
 🎉
a Party!
🥂
and
Kick-Off!
🤩
of events from
Mothers Day through Father’s Day!

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RSVP TODAY!

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We can’t wait to see YOU!
and are so grateful for your support!
XOX
Louise and Kristen
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤

Here Comes the Audiobook!

We are excited to announce the publication of The Winning Family AUDIOBOOK! It will be available wherever audiobooks are sold on May 12th. This launch kicks off a festival of events between Mother’s Day and Father Day—join us for the festivities!

Virtual book Launch: Sunday, May 11, 4pm

It’s Mother’s Day, and we’re a mother-daughter team…and both moms…and this is our gift to other mothers!  Register here for a party on Zoom to raise a glass to this accomplishment. Meet our own winning family and learn more about our “Mother of All Launches.”

May 12: Audiobook goes On Sale at all digital bookstores!

Pre-order today at Libro.FM | Audible | Apple | Kobo 

Dads, daddies, papas—we’ve got you covered too, with events through Father’s Day that uplift your parenting game!

May 25: “Dinner Table Democracy,”

A conversation about the intersection of parenting and politics featuring author Steve Zolno  Register here today.

May 26: Course Launch: “Improving Self-Esteem in Your Family”

Sign up for announcements about the forthcoming Uplift Family Upshift over at Uplift Programs. 

June 1*: “Positive Parenting For The Win” Open House

At 12pm PST, let’s talk about positive parenting on the CLUBHOUSE app with East Coast Dr. Dee of House of JoyJoin PPFTW House today!

June 6: Launch of The Winning Family Playbook!

A collection of cartoons, charts, and posters from the Lifeskills/Uplift Collection.

June 8*: pending expert interview…watch for announcement!

June 15: FATHER’S DAY Podcast launch of “The Whining Family”

“The Whining Family” will be an ongoing podcast featuring conversations centered on themes in The Winning Family. The first one features Kristen’s son, podcaster Donald Caven.

and…

BESTSELLER DAY for The Winning Family ebook!

The ebook will go on sale for 99¢ for one day – we hope you will join us in giving us a boost!

 

Would You Like a Signed Copy of The Winning Family?

Sometimes we get requests from people who love the book and want to gift a signed copy to friends, new or struggling parents, or family members. Since we’re authors and publishers, and NOT a bookstore, this is not as easy as one might think!

Here are three ways to get a signed copy.

  1. Invite us to come and speak where you are; we’ll bring books to sell!
  2. Send a self-addressed envelope and we’ll send back a signed sticker you can put in a book you’ve ordered online. (Write us at upliftpress “at” gmail for the address!)
  3. Request one from us here! Using our donation link, send the title and a message how you want it inscribed, and the cover price + $15 to cover our costs.
  4. Order a digitally-signed ebook of The Winning Family for just $5 at this link!

HEY! We’ve got some exciting news coming up… watch your inbox in the next few weeks!