The Winning Family: Return of an Inspiring Parenting Classic

The 35th Anniversary edition of Dr. Louise Hart’s parenting classic revived with Kristen Caven

Kristen Caven and Dr. Louise Hart are a mother-daughter writing team who teach social and emotional well-being for parents and children of all ages. Their latest book, The Winning Family: Where No One Has to Lose helps readers develop the win-win life skills that build self-esteem, confidence, and unconditional love in family relationships. First published in 1987 by Dodd, Mead, this book (formerly subtitled Building Self-Esteem in Your Children and Yourself) broke ground for the self-esteem movement in the 1990s, and the authors coined the term “positive parenting” to describe the philosophy and techniques that bring out the best in children and help them reach their full potential and flourish.

Adding new chapters on bodies and brains, boundaries, and media addiction to the original chapters — on communication and empowerment; guidance, touch, and play; self-care, self-talk, and beliefs; problem solving and perfectionism; extended family, leadership, divorce and power dynamics—this book delivers information parents want and need. A welcoming, inclusive narrative addresses cultural and self-esteem issues—related to race, gender, religion, special needs and spectrum diversity, poverty, crime, abuse, and broken/blended families—in the full context of trauma recovery, emotional intelligence, and ACEs, (adverse childhood experiences). This book shows how to build PACEs (positive childhood experiences), which build lifelong health. Engaging and accessible personal stories make the concepts highly relatable.

“By supporting this beloved book, you are getting behind the idea that families should be places of positivity and growth for kids and parents alike,” said Kristen Caven in the team’s pre-launch video. “This book is an updated edition of a beloved parenting classic that can help a new generation to look beyond behavior, and empower kids as they themselves grow.” According to Caven, whose voice leads this edition, this project has deep roots in her own family, a vivid contrast of toxic and healthy relationships. Conflict resolution skills, anger management, healthy child development, and expectations management are skills she, as a child of divorce, wishes all parents could be knowledgeable about and skilled in, a problem this inspiring, hopeful book addresses.

About the Authors:

Dr. Louise Hart is a community psychologist and motivational speaker who has delivered over 400 presentations around the US and internationally. Kristen Caven is a credentialed trainer in positive psychology, who also leads the founding branch of the California Writers Club. Together they founded Uplift Press & Programs in Oakland, California. New editions of their other books, Wings of Self-Esteem and The Bullying Antidote, plus emotional health books for kids Liking Myself and The Mouse, the Monster, and Me by Dr. Pat Palmer are forthcoming through Uplift Press.

The Winning Family: Where No One Has to Lose will be available everywhere books are sold on September 1st, 2022.

Source: AB Newswire

Zoom Class for Parents

with the Oakland Peace Center PeaceMaker Series

Kids are back to school (sort of)—and it’s a great chance for parents to tune up their own skills!

Join me for a Saturday Night Stuck-at-Home Survival social for parents:

Peaceful Parenting in Stressful Times

A Zoom class for parents

Seeking greater family ease, connection, and mental/emotional health

with Kristen Caven
featuring Dr. Louise Hart
Authors of The Bullying Antidote, The Winning Family, and On the Wings of Self-Esteem.

September 26th

6:30pm—8pm PST

The focus of this class is on strategies for building positive emotion, which lowers stress, expands possibility, and develops inner resources. Children whose parents help them build positive emotion handle stress better, have healthier social lives and are less susceptible to peer pressure. Experiencing positive emotions helps everyone modulate our reaction to stress and allows us to recover from the negative effects of stress more quickly and completely.
Games, Giveaways, Conversation & Information
All attendees will receive a free book or class.

Sponsored by the Oakland Peace Center

Reserve Your Spot Now!

A sliding scale admission makes this event accessible to all.

 

How to Build Self-Esteem in Your Family

Louise Hart’s popular class is now online!

Louise Hart’s original class, How to Build Self-Esteem in Your Family, is now available online. It’s the first online offering by Uplift U!

Click here to sign up for the class!

Recorded in 1990, the information is not only as fresh now as it was then, but neuroscience now scientifically proves the effectiveness of Hart’s observations. A few years after this, Louise first coined the term positive parenting, but this was the original class that started it all! (And her haircut is totally a blast from the past…!) Continue reading “How to Build Self-Esteem in Your Family”